Why your home is more than good enough for your lifestyle boudoir photo session
- Caroline Nijs

- Nov 5
- 3 min read
Your home doesn’t have to look like something out of a magazine. It doesn’t need to be spotless or flooded with light. It just needs to be yours. Because that’s where you feel safest, most at ease, and most real. And that’s exactly what I want to photograph.
Boudoir photography in your own home is not about making everything look perfect. What matters is that you’re in a space that feels familiar, doing something just for yourself.
What kind of setup do you need?
Short answer: nothing special.
Long answer:
There’s no required setup. I work with what’s already there. We’ll make decisions based on where the light is best, what feels comfortable to you, and what details make your home yours. We’ll probably end up moving a few items, but no major changes.
Most of my lifestyle boudoir photo sessions start in the living room. It’s a good starting point because it’s a place where you naturally feel relaxed. And from there we move on.
I’ve worked in hallways, kitchens, window sills, you name it, nothing is too crazy. If a space feels good to you, that’s where we’ll go. And eventually, we’ll most likely end up in your bedroom. Because that is most likely a safe space where you can let go.
How to prepare for your lifestyle boudoir photo session?
Like I said, you don’t need to redecorate your home or turn it into a studio set. But here are a few simple ways to make the most of your space:
Declutter the spots we might use
I’m not asking you to hide your real life.
But I do want to make sure the background isn’t too distracting. It’s merely making sure we’re not losing time moving things around during your shoot. And to be honest, I don’t like to waste time on editing stuff out of the photos. So, think: cabinet surfaces, floors, window sills, ...
Let in the light
Open the blinds or curtains in the rooms you’re comfortable using. I’ll take it from there.
Choose your comfort zone
If there are spaces in your home where you feel most like yourself—where you read, nap, stretch, dance, … those are often the best places to start. And if there are rooms you don’t want to use? That’s completely okay.
Why I prefer to photograph you at home
The place you live in says a lot about you. That’s why shooting at home isn’t just convenient, it’s incredibly meaningful. Your home reflects your habits, your comfort, your personality. And that is so much more beautiful than any styled studio setup could ever be.
Elaborate setups or perfect backdrops are not important. I’ll work with what’s already there: corners with beautiful light, the shapes and textures of your space, the things that make the space yours. Sometimes it’s the light falling across your hallway, the worn-in corner of your couch where you always land with a book, or the mirror you get ready in front of every morning.
FAQ
Do I need to rearrange my furniture?
Not unless you want to. We’ll work with your space as it is, adjusting small items if needed.
What if my home doesn’t feel “photo-worthy”?
Most homes don’t look like Pinterest, and that’s not the goal here. We’re aiming for authenticity, not aesthetics. I promise: there is always something beautiful to work with.
Can we use more than one room?
Yes. With two hours, we can explore multiple spaces to create variety, starting where you feel most at ease.
Final Thoughts
If you’re considering boudoir at home but worried your space isn’t “good enough”, I hope this puts your mind at ease.
I don’t care about a curated setting. This is about creating a moments in a place where you already feel at home.
And if you’re not ready to book a session just yet, that’s completely okay. You can still stay keep an eye on this space: learn more, take your time, and think about what kind of experience would feel right for you.
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