Some photography sessions stay with you, not because they’re that extraordinary, but because they carry a special meaning.
Recently, I photographed an autistic young woman and her horse, and while the session itself wasn’t particularly remarkable in any way, there was a subtle connection between us that felt different—in a good way.
This wasn’t just any horse for this young woman. This was her heart horse, the kind we all dream of finding. Life, though, has a way of throwing curveballs, and she had to make the tough decision to sell her horse. Luckily, she found a good home for her, and the new owner was kind enough to allow her to have this photoshoot.
The everyday moments that matter
It was supposed to be overcast so we met at the stables in the afternoon. But as always, the weather wasn’t exactly in line with the forecast and we had to deal with bright sunlight.
As I always like to do, I started photographing while she was getting the horse ready. I find that these moments are always very genuine. These are the moments when the easy connection is always easy to capture. Also, let’s be honest—I’m a bit sneaky about this: people never expect me to be photographing at that time. There are no staged or forced moments, instead there’s genuine care and an easy familiarity.
A shared understanding
Both the young woman and I are autistic, which was one of the reasons they booked their session with me. When I work with neurodivergent clients, it brings a certain vibe to the session. There’s a certain ease when you’re around someone who understands what it’s like to navigate the world as a neurodivergent person.
There was no need for meaningless small talk, no need to put up a performance. We both knew what horses do for us, and so it was just about being in the moment.
Saying goodbye
This session was about giving the young woman the chance to spend one more afternoon with her horse, enjoying the moments that had become second nature for them over time. It was about holding onto the small, familiar moments they shared—brushing, walking, and simply being together—creating a few final memories that she could carry with her.
When inclusion feels natural
I think what made this session so special is that it was very comfortable.
This session reminded me why inclusion in photography is so important: it’s about creating spaces where people feel genuinely seen. As a neurodivergent photographer, I bring my whole self into my work—quirks, sensitivities, and all. That authenticity seems to create a space where others, especially those who don’t fit the norm, feel safe to do the same.
No photos, but the memories remain
I can’t share the photos from this session due to privacy reasons.
Instead, I’ve shared a few photos from a trip to Italy in 2022. They’re something totally different, but beautiful nevertheless.
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