If you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve probably seen some ‘typical’ boudoir images on my feed—beautiful poses, perfect lighting, and angles that highlight every curve. I took these photos during workshops, working with professional models, and I’m proud of the work I created there.
But if you’re wondering whether this is what to expect from a session with me, let me stop you right there. My kind of boudoir is something entirely different.
Why I still share these photos
First off, I’m not ashamed of those images. They taught me a lot about composition, light, and the technical side of photography. They also show what’s possible with professional models who are experienced in creating specific looks. Sharing them is a way of honouring that learning process and the growth it brought to my work.
But those images also highlight what I don’t do. Those poses, as beautiful as they are, can feel forced and uncomfortable.
Behind the scenes: what those poses really feel like
The truth is, most of those dramatic poses are anything but natural. They require a lot of effort to hold, and while they look effortless in a photo, they often leave the person in front of the camera sore and exhausted after just a few minutes.
Professional models have the experience to push through the discomfort and make it work. But for everyday people—who aren’t used to bend and pose like that—it can feel awkward and even disheartening. And that’s not what I want for anyone I photograph.
Lifestyle boudoir photography is about you, not a pose
Don't be mistaken: when you step in front of my camera, it’s still boudoir. That means there’s an element of vulnerability—perhaps not being fully clothed, a touch of sultry, or a playful nod to sensuality. But it’s always on your terms, and it’s never about forcing you into something that feels awkward or unnatural.
And instead of focusing on rigid, uncomfortable poses, we create images that flow naturally. Maybe that means lounging on the bed in a way that feels relaxed, letting the fabric of a favorite piece of clothing drape just so, or enjoying a quiet moment that shows a softer side of you. The focus is on capturing you—in a way that feels good, looks amazing, and celebrates your comfort and confidence.
The art of feeling good
So while I’ll always appreciate those workshop images for what they are—beautiful, artistic, and a product of valuable learning experiences. But I don’t bring those poses into my sessions because they don’t align with the kind of boudoir I want to create.
Lifestyle Boudoir Photography is about ease, authenticity, and celebrating your unique self. It’s not about fitting into a pose that looks good but feels awful. It’s about showing up as you are and letting that be enough—because it is.
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